- My "home office" told me that there were no projects in the pipeline that would require junior associate support for the next six months.
- After spending nearly two years in two Southern California offices of my firm trying to best integrate myself in the workflow, I have failed. There are no other Southern California corporate associates in my class year or the one below me and I have been told (repeatedly) that it's not a problem with my work, it's a problem with the workflow. I couldn't think of anything else to do to try to improve the quality of my work experience from that location.
- My lateral options have been diminished by the poor volume and variety of my work experience at the Southern California offices. Staying longer would only put me further behind in terms of skill and chip away at my earning power (and more importantly, my ability to score an interesting and challenging job in the future).
- The Tokyo corporate group was looking for extra hands at my level for about a year. A year here will help me catch-up in terms of work experience.
- In Tokyo, the firm pays for corporate housing and a per diem (a form of COLA), allowing me to dramatically accelerate my debt repayment and savings for a year. This will give me more freedom when it's time to make the next career move.
Really, this opportunity was a lifeline as far as protecting the market value of my law degree is concerned. Because I don't have a husband or kids, I was in a unique position to jump on the opportunity. I am thankful. For the lifeline, for the job, for the ability to pay my bills. And for the adventure.
But it's still pretty tough. I don't speak Japanese. I don't blend in. I left my dogs, family and friends behind. I am putting off any chance at getting married and having kids yet another year at a time when, frankly, I don't have much time left. There is nothing wrong with Tokyo, it's just lonely. Sure, I want to protect my earning potential, but I want to be settling down and starting a family. I decided that because I had no immediate opportunity to do that, I would come to Tokyo.
I hope, when I look back at this decision years from now, that I feel like I made the right decision.